a very merry mermaid party

We celebrated Charlotte Gray's third birthday last weekend in merry mermaid style!  This is the first time that she actually knew that her birthday was coming and what all came with your big day. Charlotte is the one that chose the theme and after I had tapped out all of my creativity and craftiness (pinterest), I asked her what she wanted at her birthday and she replied in a very Charlotte way with her hands in her clasped in her lap, "just a wot of bawoons and cake."  Man, all my decorations and what was the one thing that I did not have, balloons.  So needless to say, that morning we picked up some balloons!  Her special day was made even more special because her favorite family, The Smiths, drove all the way from Virginia to come to her birthday party.  It was a great weekend that I think any three year old mermaid would have loved, and ours sure did! IMG_1613

Here are some shots from the day!

Decorations: we kept with the beach mermaid theme with shells and all of our favorite sea creatures.

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Food: our mermaid and mermen guests dined on an assortment of nautical treats!  Complete with crab sandwiches, sea weed grapes, driftwood, sea shells and cheese, sea snails, goldfish and gold coins and some fishy sweets like marshmallow starfish grahams, sand dollar cookies and clam cookies.

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Fun Activities: I always feel the teacher in me over plans everything, but with a good group of active kids with a crazy ring leader mermaid the activities were just right!  As always, Jay read a book, we chose Three Little Mermaids, everyone decorated a cookie or two to take home (I loved the google eyes I ordered) and the kids enjoyed painting fish sun catchers and receiving fishy temporary tattoos from my crazy tattooing aunties! (thanks Paula and Teresa!)

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Of course we had all the fun activities that all birthday bashes include like cake and gifts.  I think it came to a big shock to both Jay and I how she reacted to her group of loved ones singing happy birthday to her.... we sing happy birthday to at least five things a day (everything from clouds and bugs to brooms and dustpans to people she met in the grocery store) so when it was her time for the birthday song and her smile turned to a nervous cry we were a little surprised.  Thanks to a willing crowd that sang to her not once, or twice but a lucky three times and a loving Auntie Dee that helped her get through her big moment.  She blew all her candles out with shockingly no singed hair and enjoyed some cake and presents!

IMG_1699IMG_1705IMG_1710Happy Birthday to our favorite little "worm maid" we hope you had as much day on your big day as we did planning for it!  We love you!

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-melissa

a hug quilt

Sometimes you are really far away from those you want to love on and give a huge hug.  Although I can not be with you dear friend, I hope this hug quilt is a comfort to you. IMG_9230

I hope you squeeze it while getting good news on the phone...

and I hope you hide under it when days seem a little tough.

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I hope you feel the embroidery and remember that you are loved...

and I hope you know that you were thought about with every cut and stitch.

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And I hope it serves as a hug anytime you need one!

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And I hope the above picture makes you laugh.  Charlotte is wearing valentines pj pants with a halloween shirt with socks on her hands because it was beginning to snow and her hair is a hot mess.  She loves you too!

xoxo, the hess family

decking the halls

We as a family have been getting into the Christmas spirit by decorating, creating and sewing!  Early last week we had my parents come over for dinner and some decorating of our tree.  Charlotte had a blast decorating, Oliver loved playing with the ornaments and all the adults loved watching the kids be kids at Christmas! See if you can find the mittens that were required for decorating the very spiky Christmas tree! IMG_8366IMG_8410IMG_8418IMG_8381IMG_8449

Between the constant snow and the giant tree in our house the kids have been having a great time!  They have really used the Christmas tree as the biggest toy.  We have let them take select ornaments off and put them on about three times a day, needless to say the tree looks like a toddler and a baby have decorated it!

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This is the perfect time of the year to get crafty!  One of my bestest of friends came in this past weekend and besides going to a craft show we also did a good bit of chatting and eating, we had a chicken pot pie with her name written all over it!

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Charlotte and I have also been busy sewing!  She has taken a pretty big interest by sitting on my lap and helps lock my stitches and directs the fabric through the machine.  This is what we have been working on the past couple of days... burlap monogrammed stockings for all four of us and two pillows with the left over fabric!

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We hope that you are able to get into the holiday spirit by decorating and redecorating, creating and sewing like we have!

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-melissa

a holiday weekend

A great holiday weekend consists of a solid combination of good food, drinks, a packed house with friends and family, crafts, presents, new and old traditions and of course a good load of pictures.  I believe we covered all this weekend, just take a look! We had a great Thanksgiving day and packed the house with thirty family and friends.

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sibling turkey love...

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look at my ribbons!

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Started a new family tradition by hunting, cutting and dragging our Christmas tree at Corsi Tree Farm.

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the perfect tree was soon found...

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Charlotte had to make sure Daddy was doing an okay job!

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long walk back...

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And had a great visit with the Smith Family from Virginia.

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blurry picture of all of us at the Festival of Lights...

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and some cute kiddos playing at the park!

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some love for mommy at the park, photo credit goes to Ms. Jamie...

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time for some home made pizza, kids style!

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We have had a full weekend packed with memories spent with family and friends, let the holiday season begin!

-melissa